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Lift Your Voice in 2010
Susan Boyle has inspired millions. A contestant on Britain’s Got Talent, she stood before a vast audience, including three who would judge her, as a middle-aged, frumpy, tousled, unaccomplished woman from a small village. When she announced she would sing, “I Dreamed a Dream,” the audience snickered. Some had their hands over their mouths, trying to muffle an out-loud laugh.
Then came a key question—the kind that unlocks potential. “Why haven’t we heard of you before now?”
Without hesitation and with a steady look in her eyes, she responded, “I never had the opportunity until now. Things are about to change.”
And WOW did things change. It started immediately—when she opened her mouth and lifted her voice.
First the snickers and suppressed laughter stopped. Then mouths opened. Then hearts lifted with the elation of experiencing greatness. Then the crowd, including the judges, were on their feet with applause of adulation and congratulations.
Things changed.
Susan Boyle’s first CD set a record for sales before release. Oprah called. Then Dancing with the Stars. And now she is one—a star. More importantly, she is recognized for the gift she truly is.
No longer frumpy, she’s had a makeover so that the outside looks like the inside—a confident, talented woman who has earned her place.
From the example of Susan Boyle, I’ve learned so much. Just listening to her CD, which I’m doing as I’m writing this piece, strengthens my heart. The song that’s up right now is “Who I Was Born to Be.” The lyrics are, “Though I may not know the answers, I can finally say I’m free. . . I am who I was born to be.”
Susan Boyle decided to appear on Britain’s Got Talent because her deceased mother encouraged her to. Susan Boyle had someone in her corner who believed in her, prayed for her, and gave her encouragement—invisibly strengthening her heart. So this is my first lesson. Who in my circle of relationships needs my encouragement? For 2010 I’ve made a request that daily I will be a gift to someone and that I have the eyes to see it.
A second lesson is how to feel and what to do in the face of derision. Fear that someone might disapprove has often held me back, and I have failed to do what is right for me. In 2010, I promise myself to do what is right for me. To speak up. To stand for myself and not against anyone else. Join me: Lift your voice.
The Fresh Energy of a New School Year
August 24th
By Nancy Oelklaus, Ed. D.
Beginning a new school year is a big deal in any city in the U.S. After all, the education system is one of the largest enterprises in any community, full of children and adults who learn and teach there, each one with “fingers” that reach throughout the entire area. When school begins a new year, it affects all of us.
Traffic picks up; store specials emphasize the season of new beginnings. People are moving on to the next level and usually excited about it.
Vividly I remember my first year out of teaching. I had moved to the central administration building. Though excited about my new work, I missed the new beginning feeling.
At the beginning of a new school year, I would have spent some time during the summer learning from the end-of-course evaluations. I would had incorporated students’ good ideas and even considered the impractical ones. I would have made the course better from our collective previous experiences. From year to year, I didn’t carry over any guilt; I truly gave myself a fresh start.
So this morning, with the sounds of the high school band wafting across the walking trail, I pledged to let today be a new beginning. I decide to forgive the mistakes from the past that I’m aware of and create a new series of daily lesson plans derived from what I’ve learned.
It’s a new school year.
Amazing new energy
Amazing new energy greets me every time I open that closet door. If you wear size 8, it’s time to go to Goodwill!
Ending the Tyranny of Size 8 White Jeans
Today I ended the tyranny of the size 8 white jeans. For 2 years they’ve been hanging in my closet screaming SHAME to me.
No more.
The jeans were one of my rewards for achieving a weight loss goal. From the very beginning, they were too tight. As pounds slipped on, the possibility of getting back into those jeans slipped away, and I’ve been angry about it for two years.
I’m tired of being angry.
I may wear size 8 white jeans again–but not this pair.
So–what are you doing differently to bring more favorable energy into your life?